Most men cheat....

I always try to understand why men like to cheat behind their partner's back... Despite knowing the consequences of doing those act, they still want to take the "risk" to satisfy their sexual lust...

You often hear people say "When you are young, go all out and have fun, go fuck around.. One day when you finally decide to settle down, find someone you love, stay loyal and don't break his/her heart" ... This statement is not true, because once a person have that kind of background, at most they will stay committed for 5 years, before going out to have fun again...

I had 2 interesting conversation with my friends long ago and this is what they said....

The first guy said this...

1) I understand men cannot stay loyal and seeing me everyday and night he'll be bored. If I found a lover, I will allow him to go out and play around.. The condition is he does not bring it home or don't tell me about it, of course it applies to me as well...

The second guy said this...

2) There are 2 types of cheating... First is the not-so-obvious kind which is fuck-n-go.... For example you go out and fuck a guy, after sex then go back to your lover.. No strings attached with the guy, just sex...  Second is the obvious kind which is having a third party outside... But this third party is usually the one who screws up relationship and family, because having another person outside would be a long term thing, where you have to maintain the relationship with this third guy, lots of things will be involved and its just a matter of time before things blow up... 

No matter how much I love to disagree, I have to accept the fact that most men cheat...  90% of them cheats, out of this 90%, 65% belong to the fuck-n-go group while 25% have a third party outside...

For straight guys, they can find hooker.. For gays, they go sauna....

I know you all might disagree with what I say because (your defence) there are loyal people outside like you... But thing is, today you can assure your partner you won't fool around, but will it be both ways? Can your partner also do the same??  Words can be bent, promises can be broken.. How do you know what is true and what is not?

 Truth hurts, and people always tell me.. Well Jerry, you cannot prevent these things from happening, sometimes it is ok to close one eye, even if you know the truth...

I don't have a conclusion yet.... I just don't know how to accept it if my lover fucks around behind me... I understand what I said above is true...

Then let me ask.. What is love? What's the point of trusting? What is there to believe?

I'm a man too, a man can come up with too many excuses to defend themselves...  The saddest thing is, unless you can come up with a very strong evidence that your lover had cheated on you (like how Beta had cam sex with another guy), else they will not admit it...

Sigh, what a cruel world...